2019 in Snapshots

This one is purely for me. A 2019 year in review:


January


February


March


April


May


June


July


August


September


October


November


December


The January First Song & Dance

Holy moley.

Life really knows how to kick you when youโ€™re down, doesnโ€™t it? I think this has been the most difficult, most confusing, most painful month of my entire life. But you know what?

December is almost over, thank God.

Iโ€™ve never wanted to be one of those people that was like โ€œStart the new year fresh!โ€ I donโ€™t know why though, because deep down Iโ€™ve always been this person.

  1. I love fresh starts.
  2. I love round numbers.
  3. I try to go into every day with a clean slate, every week with a new focus, and every month with a new goal.

So why do I hate on the โ€œnew year – new meโ€ trend every year? Am I so hipster that I hate it just because itโ€™s popular? Possibly.

I think it also makes me sad, and I don’t like being sad. People are so motivated for JANUARY FIRST and ready to start on JANUARY FIRST and excited for JANUARY FIRST and then the other 364 days of the new year are neglected. If we truly want to have a โ€œnew year – new meโ€ mindset, then we should all be restarting our 365 day year every single morning.

If we all treated every day like it was JANUARY FIRST I guarantee we would see:

    • More kindness and generosity
    • Gyms packed with motivated people reaching their goals
    • Coffee shops filled with avid readers
    • People cooking themselves and their families healthier meals
    • More bad habits kicked
    • Less money unwisely spent
    • Overall more happiness all around

…and all the other popular new yearโ€™s resolutions that people keep for JANUARY FIRST and then forget about because it too quickly becomes January second.

So, I know I have winter goals that Iโ€™m chipping away at (badly, might I add; I told you it’s been a horrible month), but I do have one New Yearโ€™s goal:

I do not want to make any New Yearโ€™s goals.

I want to have goals for every season, every month, every week, and every day, and I donโ€™t want them to be limited by waiting for the big sparkly ball to drop at midnight. I think the world would be a better place if every day were New Yearโ€™s day.

If anyone reading this has had as shitty of a month as I have, Iโ€™m so sorry. Whatever youโ€™re going through: Iโ€™m sorry and that sucks. Try to remember that every storm runs out of rain. (Isnโ€™t that a country song? I think thatโ€™s a country song.)

And thatโ€™s my two cents. See you next year!

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I gave myself bangs, guys. That’s how emotionally unstable December 2019 has made me. And yes, I do regret them. Thank you for asking. *sigh*

Winter Goals

Good morning, happy winter!

Iโ€™ve never been good at new yearโ€™s resolutions, mainly because by July of whatever year Iโ€™ve made the goals Iโ€™ve already forgotten what they were. So I decided a while back that I was going to do seasonal goals. So here we go!

Winter Goals

Lose 15lbs and 7% body fat

No explanation required, weโ€™re still doing a fitness thing here even if I have fallen behind. 175lbs & 29% are the numbers I’m aiming for.

 

Write the first draft of my novel

Itโ€™s been in the works for a very very long time and I think I have everything I need to write a complete draft, everything except the will power that is.

 

Stop biting my nails

Surely 3 months is long enough to kick that habit, right?

 

Read at least three books

I donโ€™t do this enough.

 

Do at least two charcoal drawings

I have an art degree, but you’d never know by the amount of art I make.

 


I think seasonal goals will be great not only for mindset but also for practicality! These are all things that I want to do, of course, but I tailored these goals to be winter specific. I also want to walk our husky more often and kayak and hike, but if I decide on those goals in January when itโ€™s 16 degrees and weโ€™re buried in Kentucky ice, how will I get excited about those goals again in May?

I need to do things immediately or I lose interest.

The fact that I wonโ€™t be writing on my novel as soon as I close this blog will undoubtedly make me think twice about that goal when I do sit down to write. But no matter, theyโ€™re written in the blog and so they shall be.

Alrighty, thatโ€™s all!

If you have any goals that you donโ€™t want to put off until the ball drops, tell me about them! Letโ€™s make seasonal goals a thing. Can we do that? Is that legal?

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I really do.